Ezra Cake Psychotherapy

I work with queer, trans and gender-expansive adults around sexuality, gender, desire, shame, intimacy, neurodivergence, and the sometimes complicated business of living in a body. You don’t need to arrive knowing exactly what you want, what something means, or where you’re going. There is room for uncertainty, ambivalence and change.

I’m a Registered Psychotherapist offering trauma-informed, somatic therapy online across Ontario. My work is collaborative and consent-based, with particular attention to helping people build self-trust rather than telling them who they are or what choices they should make.

My practice includes gender exploration and transition, gender dysphoria, sexual desire and functioning, sexual pain, body image and the broader relationship you have with your body, intimacy, sexual shame, asexual and ace-spectrum experiences, kink, polyamory and consensual non-monogamy, and neurodivergence. I’m particularly interested in the places these experiences intersect rather than treating them as separate pieces of a person.

I bring extensive clinical experience working with 2SLGBTQ+ communities as well as lived experience as a queer, non-binary trans therapist. In my work, complexity is welcome, pleasure matters, and there is room to discover what actually works for you rather than what you are supposed to want.

I offer a free 50-minute consultation so we have enough time to get a real sense of one another before you decide whether you’d like to work together.